madness..the mental instability

A Bangladeshi guy who works in my dad's office landed after his 1 month vacation came up with all different mentality..i should say,the first time he came home with a packet of sweets,i felt something wrong in him.

OK!now the main incident takes place.he started roaming around the camp,on the way carrying others chappals..and yes he walks down to my house calls out "sab ji" and gets my dad out. He gives warning and sends him back..One day morning,he is missing!!later the call comes from office that the guy s back and screaming around the office.When asked,he started explaining to my dad about his visit to airport and asking the guards there to send him inside and board the flight and he claims to be hindusatani it seems!!

He was taken to the hospital and admitted there.today morning the Omani PRO went to collect him from hospital to pack him back to his home town.he took him left him and handed over to the flight authorities.the time the PRO reached office,a guy came running towards screaming that his labor card and wallet is robbed.

the PRO ran back to airport got hold of a police personality and got in..the scene was the guy dancing with a cup of tea and that too in hospital attire!!along with him few other people enjoying the tap dance..mental instability can lead others into it too..

so called maturity

I have seen teenagers taking their life more than what they are; here I don’t claim that I haven’t showed that great maturity according to my age. Here I point out the maturity were kids raise it unnecessary in front of others showing they are great than others, am wrong here calling that as maturity!!

Recently I paid a visit to my school which taught us various aspects of life and yes we remain with the same respect we were bought in! But interacting with the faculty there, I could make it out the students attitude has changed; their perception of life is changed!!

Yes, this change is just not only seen in my school, am sure everyone has seen this change in upcoming kids! The change is seen worldwide, as the technology has changed the life style changes. There was a time; joint family system was in role.

Here the role of parents in the life of the children is something great! Because the way the parents behave, the kids follow them the similar manner. In my schooling and yes present college life I had and now interacting with lot of people I understand how each generation have developed! In school being a part of student’s council, we had get hold of different students doing many notorious mistakes. When they were questioned, the fact arises, their parent does it, y can’t we do it!!Can we blame them alone???

A simple question to a next door girl “your hair clip and dress color doesn’t keep any match, what happened?” got me into a sudden shock of hearing unexpected answers!!She came up with all kind off explanations even getting my mom involved in it!!Here I never blame her parents, it’s her own attitude which she got it from her friends!!  If a 1^st std. girl can come up with this attitude then what to say about a teenager!!

STILL THE BAKRA IS SMILING AT ME!

Middle East is famous for two major things, one is rich in “Mallu” population and other is their rich Biryani with fragrant spices!!Now you might think from where this thought of biryani walked through my mind, very simple; nowhere else a well-organized Omani marriage I recently attended!!!

Now here my three membered families, i.e., me, dad and mummy represent the girl’s side, she comes as my dad’s secretary’s sister. The time we walked into their grandly decorated home two people greeted us, secretary and her brother. The secretary is the only educated personality among the group present there! That itself is a great deal!

She lead us to a room (that’s the 1st time am seeing a room unfurnished) and asked us to sit.me and mummy looked around in wonder were to sit, the host understanding our confusion sat down and asked us to sit. We took our seat (i.e. the floor) and looked around. Within a fraction of second a huge group of shining ladies gave their entry, seriously few of them had a tough time to get through the 1m wide door.

They looked at us like the monkeys kept in the zoo with all the wonders of seeing an Indian family attending their marriage functions. They got us different varieties of trays filled with varieties of sweets and eateries. Mmmhh!!!i should appreciate the taste!!A flask of kava (traditional Muslim coffee) and 1 kava cup for the group of 10. They stretched a cup of coffee to me and mummy but resisted having it. But the ladies couldn’t resist the fragrance of the coffee bean, one of the lady took out the cup pour in the coffee drank it dipped the cup into a bowl of water and handed it to next lady. Wow what a passing game!!

Back stage there is preparation of fresh biryani is taking place. Best Omani chefs are preparing it in all better possible ways. After a while of chit chats with all my body including in it, the host took us to the  next room, a few ladies have already taken their seat(floor is the same seat here).they welcomed us to join them, walking in I noticed a huge plate filled with mutton biryani in the right midst of the ladies.

Amidst the talks, I noticed someone is smiling at me sitting right in the middle. Oops!!The “bakra” is smiling at me!!i have seen mummy garnishing the rice or any dishes with tomato skin or greens, never with the head of the animal she had prepared the dish with. Here the character smiling at me is the goat’s head garnished over the biryani. The hosts made it clear, it’s a local tradition were they garnish the biryanis with the ingredients they have used in making of it!!i was freakily surprised in this statement looking at the bakra with his wide open eyes who is looking at me with his smile of sympathy!!As me and mummy are out of non-vegetarians we got our stomach filled watching the bakra whose whole body is been inside the ladies around us!!

Still, the bakra is smiling at me!!I feel its eyes rolling at me!