THE MILLION DOLLAR DOCTOR/ENGINEER

Recent talk with one family friend made me realize how parents are tensed about their child's educational future..a 1st standard child's Mom is finding out the best colleges and courses in and around India..she was so tensed about the present educational system and was worried about her child's creative skills and she wanted her to join architecture after hearing me..

That's one Mom..now parents are ready to pay lakhs and crore for their kid to join any college for the particular course.leave college ,even they are ready to pay for an admission in pre-primary..when I was in 5th class one of my family friend joined the Medical college at the rate of 75 lakhs and his brother after 5 years joined the same college for 1 crore..by the time he passed out, his total expenditure was 2 crore..as he repeated 1 or 2 years..and again he payed another few lakhs to join a hospital  and he became a million dollar valued doctor!
and we go to these doctors for our simple diseases and make it more complicated..

above said brothers had their interest in computer science more than the medical field they chose!but their parents push,lead them to choose medical field without any interest..we can see this in other courses too like engineering..
every parent is ambitious to see their child as an engineer or doctor..but they rarely ask their child's ambition..what he wants to join..without any interest they join the course...ruin their life..and once passed out they are going to create marvels in field of technology!

its just one request listen to ur child's interest and leave them according to their choice other than pushing them to something they don't like!

THINKING SKILLS and 9 mantras!

recently went through an article on Thinking skills and thinking like a genius..it explains how people walk into counselor's room to improve their thinking process and start thinking like Einstein or Aristotle and harness their power of creative mind and improve their future..and those who visit these centers are of age 50+

they have suggested 9 mantras to improve thinking...

1. Rethink! Look at problems in many different ways.
2. Visualize! Utilize diagrams and imagery to analyze your dilemma.
3. Produce! Genius is productive.
4. Combine! Make novel combinations...
5. Form! Form relationships.
6. Opposite! Think in opposites.
7. Metaphor/simile! Think metaphorically.
8. Failure! Learning from your mistakes is one example of using failure.
9. Patience! Don't confuse inspiration with ideas.

and i wonder...why people who have spent half their life peacefully suddenly walk in for such a counseling on thinking process..and follow these 9 mantras to improve their thinking skills!

always felt elders are behind a type of critical thinking(not being negative) questioning there own ego and getting over anxious about their thoughts from the question what s next door family going to think about us to what my son thinks..never ending attitude of man to grow more than his fellow beings to reach the next level leads him to the stage of revised thinking and then to counselling centers !

Mrs.cool..

Let anything happen around her,my Mummy never cares..a tension free lady i have ever seen..
Why this Mrs.cool in my blog??answer is simple..all aged people are under this factor called 'stress..'from minute things to major ones..wat not to take tension..for kids its daily homework,exams and marks..
For teenagers their future life..for young adults its no. Of KTs u get and many things...for a family man its his family....there goes d list...and this made me to get my mummy into this discussion..
A recent talk with my faculty made me think abt a stress free solution..i.e once u start thinking about a topic and the thoughts fly to next levels..once u reach that try rewinding to d stories ur mind passed through..
At the end wat u wer thinking s just tympass or foolishnes..
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