Saturday, 28 May 2011

so called maturity


I have seen teenagers taking their life more than what they are; here I don’t claim that I haven’t showed that great maturity according to my age. Here I point out the maturity were kids raise it unnecessary in front of others showing they are great than others, am wrong here calling that as maturity!!

Recently I paid a visit to my school which taught us various aspects of life and yes we remain with the same respect we were bought in! But interacting with the faculty there, I could make it out the students attitude has changed; their perception of life is changed!!

Yes, this change is just not only seen in my school, am sure everyone has seen this change in upcoming kids! The change is seen worldwide, as the technology has changed the life style changes. There was a time; joint family system was in role.

Here the role of parents in the life of the children is something great! Because the way the parents behave, the kids follow them the similar manner. In my schooling and yes present college life I had and now interacting with lot of people I understand how each generation have developed! In school being a part of student’s council, we had get hold of different students doing many notorious mistakes. When they were questioned, the fact arises, their parent does it, y can’t we do it!!Can we blame them alone???

A simple question to a next door girl “your hair clip and dress color doesn’t keep any match, what happened?” got me into a sudden shock of hearing unexpected answers!!She came up with all kind off explanations even getting my mom involved in it!!Here I never blame her parents, it’s her own attitude which she got it from her friends!!  If a 1st std. girl can come up with this attitude then what to say about a teenager!!

3 comments:

  1. hey ashu ..now thats agood observation .....It's not only children who grow. Parents do too. As much as all parent like watch to see what there children do with their lives, they are watching us to see what we do with ours. I can't tell my children to reach for the sun. All I can do is reach for it, myself. If you have never been hated by your child you have never been a parent. .....:) so in short ...mom and dad are GOD ....:)

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  2. wow..chechi..another spark of beautiful writing..well...yea..i agree to every single line in your writing..technology grew..kids grew..world grew..so the attitude changed...bringing it back to the old times is hard...!but let us just hope the so called matured ones are within the limits...!!

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  3. true!!! time changed technology changed and the kids too changed....well written...

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